Relationship Private Counseling

 

101 OVERVIEW  

 

In this class, you center yourself and orchestrate your chakras–inner power plants that generate security, sexuality, power, love, communication, vision, and feelings of oneness with everything and everyone. You learn a chant and a ritual that teaches you how to waken each chakra.

 

 

Parents either meet a need or fail to meet your needs for love as a child in a way you directly sense. If they truly love you, they hold you and encourage you to develop in your own direction at your own pace. Explore symbolic resonances of love you lacked. Learn, for yourself and clients, how imprints rule your lives now, dictate the ecology of inner voices, dominate your bodies, project into dreams, and direct spiritual aspirations. Probe imprints from conception, gestation, labor, delivery, childhood. Learn how to modify imprints to suit life today.

 

 

If Mom didn’t completely love and accept herself and others, you copied her. She couldn’t model self-love and overflowing love to others if her parents, in turn, didn’t model it. In this class, you lovingly divorce her. Rise above her negative examples. Fully, get that she’ll never meet your demand to love you and ask nothing in return. You rage at how she hurt you and the crap she modeled. Then put ourselves in her place and get how her parents molded her. You empathize. You forgive her. Express love to her. As homework, you guide others to drop junk programs they got from their mothers.

 

If Dad didn’t completely love and accept himself and others, you copied this. Divorce Dad, rise above his negativity. Realize he’ll never love you unconditionally. Express anger, then put yourself in his place and feel how his parents imprinted him to imprint you. Finally, forgive him and tell him you love him. Take other people through this process.

 

Understand how genuine concern, authentic communication, and active listening help you, your lovers, and your clients grow. Listen actively–mirror, validate and empathize with one another. Give genuine regard: paraphrase, summarize, show sympathy. Roleplay–share advanced feedback; show partners and clients how they come across.

 

 

Imagos–inner voices–make us seek lovers who personify what we loved or hated about our Mom or Dad. Partners you facilitate in tantric counseling seek (in lovers you represent) what they loved about their caregivers. But you, as lover surrogate, also symbol what they hated about parents. The lover you represent can hurt them as their parents did. When you don’t hurt them and instead, love them, they again feel their Inner Children; they rescript themselves for interdependency rather than co-dependency.

 

You reconsider your lovers from days gone, then practice helping others review their previous relationships to better current relationships. You, then your clients look at the events, sexual and emotional sharing in each prior pairing. You review the developmental tasks you and they worked on in the relationship and note what you and they learned from being together. Then you see how you and they can apply what you learned to your current loves.

 

This class, to be experienced immediately after 107, is the second part of a date where you listened compassionately to a woman sharing her childhood and sexual history with you. In this part of the date you honor her clitoris, lick her labia, caressing her vagina with your fingers, coach catharsis, encourage her ejaculation. In the homework, you teach others how to worship women with the methods you experienced and practiced in class.CTP

 

In this class, you sample Dr. Stanislav Grof’s Holotropic Breathing. You breathe to music and get holos–experiences, images, and insights that improve relationships. Learn the mechanics of holotropic breathing and the modules of Grof’s Master Matrix of perinatally-conditioned movement and how this technology can facilitate tantra.

 

 

Use Voice Dialogue to center yourself and to access, own, and integrate your shadow and spiritual selves–your less known inner voices (also known as personality aspects, roles, subselves, subpersonalities, egos). You center yourself when you hold the tension between opposed inner voices. Centered, you recognize, embrace and coordinate your protective, vulnerable, instinctual, and spiritual subselves. Learn how interactive patterns sour from unexpressed vulnerability and projection of disowned inner voices on others. Practice expressing your hidden hurts and insecurities, say how what bugs you about your friends and lovers is true of you, too. You practice using Voice Dialogue to facilitate others.

 

 

Learn to love the look, feel, and abilities of your body and your lovers for terrific tantric sex and learn how to facilitate clients’ body explorations. For yourself, lovers and clients, you learn how to listen to the voices of the body, to feel your physique, its history, needs, and voices that affect tantric sex. Lessons in this course include a gestalt encounter with the body seen in a mirror and a visit to the body’s inside, using a mini-avatar.

 

 

Chakra Yoga stretches to strengthen and center you. It opens each of your energy centers so you feel safe, sexy, empowered, loving, communicative, clear, and connected to your beloved and the world. You combine safe postures adapted to your physical condition with precise breathing techniques, subtle spine movements, and uplifting visualization to bridge the spiritual and the physical within you, inspire and ground you. Yoga moves, breathing, and inner holds tune up your chakras and their corresponding aspects of consciousness. All the chakras’ energies flow through your central channel, your inner flute. Then you’re ready for a flute duet with your beloved and for a symphony of all souls. You share yoga basics with clients.

 

 

Classes are virtual only at this time.  You will receive additional homework which you will need to complete in order to earn your certification.